Theological Disagreement, Debates, And Discussions

  What do you believe about: Baptism… The Second Coming… Revival… God’s Sovereignty…  Speaking In Tongues… Once Saved, Always Saved… The Lord’s Supper… etc?  Whatever view you hold, I hope you know that there are Christians (That love Jesus, pray, and study their Bible as faithfully as you do) who don’t believe the same way as you.  You probably attend church with them.  They may be close friends.  They might even be your pastor or Sunday School teacher.

If someone doesn’t believe like us, that doesn’t make them our enemy.  If we don’t believe like them, that doesn’t mean we should withdraw fellowship from them.  When there are differences, that doesn’t mean it is our job to correct what we think are their erroneous beliefs. I am not talking about heretical issues, I’m talking about people who are Christians, regarding matters about which there is room for disagreement.

Sadly, too many Christians (And some pastors!) like to argue.  They are aggressive in the way they talk to and about those who believe differently from them.  They throw the church… the Bride of Christ… into chaos and confusion as a result.  They cause people to stumble away from the cross instead of toward it.  Paul said he wished people like that would emasculate themselves.  If you don’t know what emasculate means, click here.

There are not to be arguments and disagreements in the church.  Doctrine should be a uniting factor, not one that divides.  If a denomination, or the church you attend, believes differently from you on what you believe is a significant issue… it is better to go somewhere else than cause difficulties within the fellowship!

When it comes to disagreement over doctrine with other believers, consider a well known quote and then more importantly, what God wrote…

Augustine: “In essentials, unity; In doubtful matters, liberty; In all things, charity (Love).”

1 Corinthians 8:1b Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.

Paul wrote some important things about differences of opinion in regards to doubtful matters (Several references are linked in that last sentence.  Please click them all).

He also wrote it was unhealthy discussions within the church that caused friction and should be avoided.  My thought: Unity of the body is sometimes more important than correcting others who disagree with us in doubtful matters.  Paul went on to tell Timothy that quarreling (Debating?  Arguing?) only ruins the faith of those who hear and THAT was why Timothy was to have sound doctrine himself.

Because of doctrinal error, Paul wrote for Timothy to minister the Word to God’s people with complete patience.  Timothy (And by extension all pastors) are to teach sound doctrine to God’s people… to protect them from heresy.  This takes time… patience… and prayer to accomplish.  This must be done in the church because there is a lot of doctrinal heresy floating around these days.

Depending on the person, the “essentials” Augustine referenced may be different.  And once you make a list, someone will challenge and critique it.  So I know that once I write down what my “essentials” are, I will be challenged… and that’s okay.  Someone will argue I left something out… and after they make their case I may agree with them.  Anyway… here’s my short list.  These I will not budge on to any degree.

The Trinity.

The virgin birth.

The deity and humanity of Christ.

The death of Jesus on the cross.

The substutionary atonement of Christ.

The bodily resurrection of Jesus from the dead.

Salvation is in Jesus Christ alone.

Salvation is by grace through faith.

The sure return of Christ.

Past those things there are a number of matters I hold dear and about which I have strong beliefs.  But they are NOT a test of my willingness to fellowship.  Yet there are matters not included in the list above that are important enough to defend strongly and with great passion.


4 comments on “Theological Disagreement, Debates, And Discussions

  1. Beth Hendrix says:

    Amen to this one!

    There have been many times when after hearing a sermon or Sunday School lesson, I have re-read a scripture and received something that I hadn’t noticed before. Just because I might not agree with another believer’s view doesn’t mean that I have to try to persuade them to mine.

    Let our lives be a witness to our beliefs.

  2. Searching says:

    What wise and sound counsel! We can learn from discussion and sometimes we adjust our view and sometimes we are compelled to hold fast. But I think we should always ask ourselves three questions anytime we speak… Is what we’re about to say true, to the best of our knowledge, is it necessary, is there reason for me to say it, and finally is it kind, everything we say should be kind as Christians. Thanks for your leadership Ron!

  3. Bill Carraway says:

    Where would inerrancy figure into your list? I have a hard time wavering on this issue. It would be nice to have a common starting point. I have held my tongue(except for once) when the teachers say the language lack the nuisance to express this or it was beyond the writers understanding. I firmly believe it is the inspired word of God and writers understanding is not a key issue. If a word was lacking surely God was capable of creating a new word. Sorry. I hope you are not getting tired of me.

    Your Brother in Christ


    I wrote that my list would probably change, I would add the one you ask about. In my view, the infallibility and inerrancy of Scripture is another belief I hold that I don’t budge on. I believe the Bible is God’s Word and does not contain any mixture of error. And oh… you aren’t a bother!



  4. Mark Ray says:

    WOW- what truth– If only we as church members and Christians would/could be like this– With the number of churches in our area needing preachers – I wonder who really “runs” churches?? Who should decide what “avenue” a church follows?


    Thank you for your reply. To answer your question I think it is best to go to The Scripture. Thus I think what is below is clear enough for us to find an answer to your question about who runs the church… or at least the way it should happen.

    Ephesians 5:23, “The husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.”

    Hebrews 13:17, “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.”

    1 Peter 5:2, “Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; 3not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock.”


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